No Self-Rejecting in 2021

A Facebook friend/ college associate of mine posted this perfectly timed message that I want to share with the masses: How often have you found yourself putting off things/experiences or hiding talents? What about not going out for positions/promotions? Maybe you don’t tell people your true feelings for fear of being rejected? I’ve personally done […]

Meet People Where They Are

I’ll be honest, over the years (and even recently) I’ve been a real shitty friend. I could blame it on my mental health..I could blame it on my childhood..I could blame it on my miscarriages..I could blame it on anything other than myself but the truth is: I’m selfish. I’ve come accept that about myself. […]

Take A Break!

Okay y’all… I know, it’s been a minute and I’m sorry!!! I had to recharge. This past month has been extremely emotionally draining. Ya girl was TIRED! Between being short-staffed at work, stressing over my class, doing hair part-time, taking care of my injured boyfriend, and having my bonus baby with us, I was already […]

Lost & Found

You ever get into a space where nothing makes sense? When it feels like you’re just lost and don’t know who you want to be, where you want to go, or what you want to do? Like you’re just walking around in a fog? It can’t just be me.. Remember how I told y’all I […]

2020 Vision

Here we are, 9 months into the year that pretty much everyone had such big plans for. I don’t know about you, but there have been quite a few times where I’ve said aloud, “2020 sucks ass!”. Then I came across this gem the other day: I don’t know her, but homegirl is 100% correct! […]

Take What You Need 💜

This morning before I left out for work, I kissed my boyfriend like I normally do. He asked, “Do you have money?”, like he normally does. I responded, “Ehh, kinda”.. to which he said, “Take what you need”. I didn’t take anything because I didn’t truly need it, but all day those four words replayed […]

Love You Once, Love You Always

Hey friends!! Hope you’re all still making the best of each day. If not, I’m sending lots of light and love your way. Speaking of love, let’s jump right in to today’s topic. In one of my last post I said, “..if I’ve ever said I love you, I meant that shit and I’m always […]

A Sunflower Among 80,000 Tulips

According to the Internet, we encounter about 80 thousand people in a lifetime. We can trust that tidbit of information because the Internet never lies, right?! Out of those 80k, there will be a select few who will leave their footprints on our heart. Some good, some bad, but either way they’re there. Today a […]