Grief : A Longterm Process

December 30th, 2018 -I found out I was pregnant. I was happy because I always wanted to be a mom. I was scared because I was thinking about throwing in the towel on my relationship up until that point. I was nervous because that is a journey that nothing can every really prepare you for. […]

Still Beauty

Hey y’all!! So it’s been almost two weeks since I’ve dropped some new content. Honestly, I tried writing last week but I just wasn’t feeling it. I started a few pieces but never got around to finishing them. My heart just wasn’t in it. These last two weeks I’ve been quiet. I’ve been outside enjoying […]

Fresh Air

Hey friends!! I know it’s been a couple weeks but I honestly have just been trying to get out of my own head. If you aren’t living under a rock like Patrick, then I’m sure you’ve heard all about the Coronavirus AKA Covid-19. If you don’t, google it because I’m not reaching out to update […]

Dear Black Man

Okay, so this post comes at a perfect time since it’s Black History Month ✊🏽 I came across these two posts on Facebook this week: I have several thoughts about both but they all come down to this; men in general are not allowed to be vulnerable without being seen as “weak”, but in my […]

Reset To Factory Settings

Let’s be honest, sometimes life sucks ass and we feel completely defeated. If you’ve never experienced this feeling, I pray you’ll never have to. For those of us who have though, hopefully you’ve learned how to reset yourself. I’ve honestly been really down and out for the past week and a half. I haven’t slept […]

The Worst Day of My Life

Hey ya’ll ! Hope you all are indulging in positive energy. If not, I’m sending some your way! Today’s post isn’t going to be like the others, so if  you’re looking for some inspiration today I can’t promise that you’ll find it here. I can promise though that I’m going to tell you a story […]

You Can Spark A Movement

“If you can spark a conversation, you can spark a movement.” Someone said that to me in a recently and it really struck a chord. It forced me to ask myself two important questions: What conversation do I want to have with the masses? What movement do I want it to lead to? You see, […]

Holidays: Enjoying or Surviving

Hey guys! Quick check in before the end of the decade.. I can’t believe how fast the end of this year snuck up on ius. It’s odd because I feel like this was the LONGEST year of my life ya’ll!! So much loss and depression, but ya girl made it through! I know it’s been […]