No Self-Rejecting in 2021

A Facebook friend/ college associate of mine posted this perfectly timed message that I want to share with the masses: How often have you found yourself putting off things/experiences or hiding talents? What about not going out for positions/promotions? Maybe you don’t tell people your true feelings for fear of being rejected? I’ve personally done […]

A Sunflower Among 80,000 Tulips

According to the Internet, we encounter about 80 thousand people in a lifetime. We can trust that tidbit of information because the Internet never lies, right?! Out of those 80k, there will be a select few who will leave their footprints on our heart. Some good, some bad, but either way they’re there. Today a […]

Take Time To Blossom

Hey friends!!! Happy weekend 875 of quarantine!! Hope this finds you with clean hands and a clean ass since there’s never any toilet paper in the stores. Now, let’s get straight to business shall we?! Lately I had been feeling a little discouraged about blogging honestly. I felt like since I stopped writing about my […]

Thirty-WON

I know.. it’s been a while. I had to get my sh*t together y’all. (Still in progress FYI!) While all that is amazing and I’m forever grateful for my blessings, the journey has not been easy. I have cried so many tears over the last few months. Tears of pain, heartache, joy, excitement, loss.. you […]

Meet People Where They Are

I’ll be honest, over the years (and even recently) I’ve been a real shitty friend. I could blame it on my mental health..I could blame it on my childhood..I could blame it on my miscarriages..I could blame it on anything other than myself but the truth is: I’m selfish. I’ve come accept that about myself. […]

Take A Break!

Okay y’all… I know, it’s been a minute and I’m sorry!!! I had to recharge. This past month has been extremely emotionally draining. Ya girl was TIRED! Between being short-staffed at work, stressing over my class, doing hair part-time, taking care of my injured boyfriend, and having my bonus baby with us, I was already […]

Lost & Found

You ever get into a space where nothing makes sense? When it feels like you’re just lost and don’t know who you want to be, where you want to go, or what you want to do? Like you’re just walking around in a fog? It can’t just be me.. Remember how I told y’all I […]

2020 Vision

Here we are, 9 months into the year that pretty much everyone had such big plans for. I don’t know about you, but there have been quite a few times where I’ve said aloud, “2020 sucks ass!”. Then I came across this gem the other day: I don’t know her, but homegirl is 100% correct! […]

Faith > Fear

It’s been a little while, I know. I wanted to talk to y’all but I didn’t have the words. Well now I do.. 8.20.08— I lost my grandma. She was my other momma. 90% of my childhood memories include her. She took my sister & I fishing at the lake almost every warm, sunny Saturday. […]

Speak Life

One of my favorite quotes says, “The power of life and death lies in the tongue. Speak life into people.”…now don’t ask me who said it because I honestly can’t remember right now, but I do know that it’s true. Recently I found out something about a close friend’s childhood that broke my heart. It […]

Take What You Need 💜

This morning before I left out for work, I kissed my boyfriend like I normally do. He asked, “Do you have money?”, like he normally does. I responded, “Ehh, kinda”.. to which he said, “Take what you need”. I didn’t take anything because I didn’t truly need it, but all day those four words replayed […]